Lisa - I'm Lisa, so I'm a 42 year old mother of four children, they're 16, 14, 10 and 9. I 'm also a step mum to two other children that are 8 and 6. We brought all the six kids together early on when we all moved into the same house, and we talked about what we thought a good family looked like, and we asked them what makes a happy family? And then we said, okay, so what would make the family unhappy? So that would be from, the little ones would talk about things like, well if you hit somebody that would make the family unhappy, and if you called somebody a bad name, that would make you unhappy, so we come up with a bit of a system where if we'd have consequences, and we actually got the kids to decide what the consequences would be. Hayley - Well when we sat down and had that chat about it, and making rules and that, I thought it was more for the little kids, so I stood back a bit and just let them talk and make the rules, and I just agreed to it all because I'm the oldest one, I just have to try and lead by example the rules that they want. Lisa - To hear my husband, or husband now, to hear him say something nasty or in a stern voice, I don't think I would feel comfortable because they're still my children, so, we had to talk about all those possibilities and scenarios and reach an agreement, how to deal with them before they happened. Halyey - We'll see him tell off the kids, but like, time by time you get, like it's normal now, because he's a parent now, he's our step-dad.